ytd night i went to my cousin's wedding dinner. it was fun coz it was successful and i saw my babies. they were so pretty and cute ytd. i had fun with them. i realised kids are really easy to get satisfied. u just need to put ur hands together, like those runners of the same team, they will put their hands together, and shout "yea yea yea" to increase their semangat. for the kids, they can just laugh for some time just continue doing that. maybe in their world, thr is no worries, they are protected well by their parents. i am not saying i am not protected well by parents, is just that until certain stages, thr are a lot of things that u need to concern bout and wry bout. when i was bout the same age as them or maybe slightly older, i cant wait to grow up, go to work and hv my own life. but now, i hope i can just be like them, going to kindergarten playing ard with friends, no worries, go home then can do anything they like. the kids now are over protected. for example, my aunt, she has 3 daughters, the eldest is standard 6 this year. my aunt is ady thinking what shud her children take when they finish studying form 5. as u guys know, when we choose the course that shud be taken after form 5, we must be very careful, analyse this and that. coz nowadays keep hearing this field will be flooded after how many years. but her daughter the eldest is just standard 6, isnt it too early? she doesnt even let her daughter take bus and even walk. i know it is dangerous for gals to walk alone, but it is just taking bus. what for u wanna wry so much? everything is set by Him. i'm not saying u shudnt take any precaution for that, is just that they must experience smth to grow up or to get more mature. if the parents were to protective, the child will nvr be able to know what is the meaning of danger and knowing to defend themself from everything. anyway, back to the wedding dinner. my cousin's wife was sporting. she is shanghai ppl. so my cousin sang the tong hua in chinese, his wife was required to sing it in shanghai dialect. slowly..almost everyone was required to sing. thanks to my aunt's business partner (the other aunt), he always like to challenge me, lol. ytd's situation was very high, even my grandfather was so happy and ended up singing a song. so..i didnt sing, for those who doesnt want to sing, has to drink wine. the wine was very erm..i dun noe how to describe that. is like even i dun breathe, i can still taste the wine, what a bad taste. so..i drank almost one quarter of a glass. my the other cousin is studying multimedia, which is those dj thingy. he has a very nice voice and he is sporting as well. at first i wanted to pull someone out to dance while i sing, or vice versa. in real life, i'm not that daring, but it is becoz ytd everyone was so sporting and high. suddenly, i just dun feel like embarrassing myself in front of my relatives. Lol. so the dinner ended at 11. my niece was so happy and excited when she hears ppl singing, she knows what was happening and she just clapped her hands and laugh.. everytime i see them, all the worries will be gone for that moment. i was tired playing with them, they are too energetic..haha..once i sit down to drink water, not even 5 seconds, i was called to play with them again. it is fun..u will nvr know how fun it is..they are just so cute..